if i was with britney then one thing is for sure, I would tell her life is for living, s*** happens in this world to mostly all of us, I know she is hurting and was madly in love and thought her hubby was to.... if people left britney to things then she might just move on as we all do in the end, but if you ask me she needs her mother to tell her a few home truths as she needs truth around her not crap and showbiz lies.
Give the girl space and some peace time.
She needs true friends not false ones, but being a star you never what or who is.
Just pull yourself together in your time hun, and those lovely lads of yours will be with you, you will get your head back on your shoulders and you will make a great mum to your three children hun next one a girl.