to be a mother

to be a mother

I have never been Britney's fan. I liked other kind of music. Maturing I started to realize the heavy work in show business. What it costs for people. I have started to appreciate good pop-music.
I just wanna share, like many of us, my point of view. People say too mny things about Britney. But nobody, even doctors, can't realize all the difficulty that hppens to Brit. Being a mother I can feel what a woman can feel. First of ll Britney is a mother. I wanna thank Britney for giving the world two wonderful children. I admire woman who had been pregnant with such a small difference in time! It is so hard. And it is real feat. Even greater feat is that she could go through two cesarean section. I went through one and it was so hard to go throught it. The mentality becomes very weak, you feel helpless and weak, you become whining and sad, postnatal depression simply knocks you down.I know only one rescue.A gentle smell of the child sleeping by. And the second one is your husband supporting you.

Britney,
You don't have to prove toanyone who you actually are! You have already proved to this world who you are and what you are. You are a mother and to be strong and true mum for the children it is necessary to try to find yourself. It is very hard to do,especially after operation when you break up to slices. But only you can do it if you want your children have a strong mum. And don't even think of what people think about you. You will never prove to anyone who you really are.

"She's too big, now she's too thin"
I wish you were "big")))) The weight is necessary for breastfeeding. I can't believe how you can be so thin when your second child is only 1 y.o. Of course it's fantastic...but does it really make you happy?(
I am sorry for that sad thoughts......I want you to read this book that tells us how to be happy and how to raise our kids happy http://www.continuum-concept.org/

With love from Russia

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Anno Domini:

I have just watched a video to a song "Someday", The song is so wonderful and Britney is so gentle being pregnant. The song tells exactly what it is like to be pregnant...."Nothing seems to be the way it used to....Everything seems shallow" ... I miss being pregnant) The music goes to depth of my soul and goes out with the tears of happiness) Brit, thank you again)

But I wonder....
How good law let so much loving mother lose her sons?In USA?
In Russia the intellectual minority in struggle for democracy takes an example from America, admiring with its democracy and laws, but... I do not understand, how can loving (and like all of us making mistakes) mother lose children, but thus there are no lawful bases to relieve the person from prosecutions of people with cameras? %) In USA????
Everybody makes mistakes to become better....And somebody's mistakes always seem to be bigger than your own.... And through a magnifier of public mass-media even small offences seem huge.... Britney is such a bright person.. But someday people will understand....maybe by themselves...maybe they will "finally see it all in their babies".....

Take care!

mike sec:

Brit, just be yourself. You don't need to prove. Be the person that God created you to be. Our hearts go out to you we love you and we want Good things for you. You are sexy talented smart, not to mention fine as hell. Now I can't give you any advice on motherhood. I haven't been a mother for as long as I can remember.LOL Brit be an original don't die a cheap madonna copy.